by Marta Malyk | Jan 5, 2021 | Advice, Cold Calling Tips, Lead Generation
Who would you be more likely to buy from, someone who called you, out of the blue, or someone recommended by a friend or colleague?
Study after study have proven that referrals and recommendations are the BEST source of sales prospects. This post will show you why, when and most importantly HOW to ask for a referral.
First, let’s look at WHY we should ask for a referral.
Trust
A Nielsen study on trust found that “84% of buyers are mostly influenced by recommendations from friends and family”. And trust is KEY to building relationships that convert to sales.
When you are working from a referral, they already trust you. This is a huge benefit, saving you time and, as long as you remain trustworthy, can actually speed up the relationship building and sales process.
Selectivity
Along the same lines, an IDC study found that “almost 75% of executives prefer to work with salespeople who’ve been referred to them”. Executives are busy, being a referral saves them the time of vetting you. Get a referral.
Profit
A Wharton School of Business study found that “Customers won through referrals are about 24% more profitable than other customers”. In addition to being easier to start a relationship with, once they are customers, they are less likely to leave.
Clearly, referrals are a potent source of quality leads.
Leaving money on the table
But while 91% of customers say they’d give referrals, only 11% of salespeople ask for referrals!
Why don’t salespeople ask for referrals? These seem to be the top excuses – along with suggestions on how to overcome them:
- “They won’t know anyone who needs my services” – you call prospects because they fit some basic criteria. It is a very good bet that they know others with the same criteria, or if they can’t use you, they may know someone who is an even better fit!
- “It will make me look needy or desperate” – no, it will make you look like a ‘professional’. You aren’t begging for scraps; you are asking for an introduction. Executives know how important networking is – if you have impressed them with your knowledge and listening skills, they will be more willing to make a connection.
- “I have enough leads” – if this were true, you probably wouldn’t be reading article this so, go work on getting referrals to get more, and higher quality, leads.
- “They would refer me if they knew anyone who needed my services” – no, they probably have a dozen other things on their to do lists and helping you get leads is probably not one of them – BUT, if you ask, they may take the time to do it, so definitely try!
- “I forgot” – make it a part of your scripting, a closing step to your pitch so it is something you do automatically. It is not an ‘afterthought’ but a final step in your sales outreach process.
HOW to Ask for a Referral
- Happy Clients: Whenever you receive a glowing call, email or words of praise, ask them, “is there anyone else you know who might be interested in our services?”
- New Prospects: Even if they don’t convert right then, ask them, “is there anyone else you know who might be interested in our services?” or “I know that we are not a good fit for your company right now, but is there anyone you know or work with who might be a better fit?”
- At the end of the buying process: As a last touch point, make sure you ask for a referral! This can happen at a last meeting or as part of a follow-up email.
- Bonus Points: At the BEGINNING of the buying process, at your kick off meeting, mention that you will, in a few weeks, be circling back to see if they know of anyone who might also be a good fit for your services. This gives them a quick heads up that you will be asking, makes asking a bit easier, as they expect it and gets a small ‘buy-in’ that that is part of the process. It also makes you look like a consummate sales PRO!
Salespeople who actively seek out and follow-up on referrals earn 4 to 5 times more than those who do not – make sure that YOU are asking for them!
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by Nancy Calabrese | Jan 4, 2021 | Podcast
Our special guest on this week’s episode of Conversational Selling is Delia Passi, Founder of Women Certified and Women’s Choice Award. She has built the nation’s leading authority on loyalty among women, advocating for consumers by offering reliable fact-based ratings. Delia is a former publisher of Working Women and Working Mother magazine, and the author of Winning the Toughest Customer, the Essential Guide to Selling to Women.
“Women really value the opinion of other women. So that’s why the influencer community today is becoming more powerful than ever before: because we really create loyalty with people that provide us with trusted advice, ideas, and make our life simple,” says Delia.
We chat about targeting marketing for women, as well as:
- Who are the lead household purchasers
- Women’s Choice Award research standards
- Offering an objective, fact-based rating system
- Locating the highest recommended health care facilities
- Differentiating how to sell to women vs. men
- And more
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Transcript
Voiceover: You’re listening to the Conversational Selling Podcast with Nancy Calabrese.
Nancy Calabrese: Hi, Nancy Calabrese. And this is Conversational Selling. It’s the podcasts where business experts share what’s going on in sales and marketing today. And as always, it starts with the human conversation. So lucky us today we get to speak with Delia Passi, about her amazing career and passion. Delia is the founder of Women’s Certified, Inc and Women’s Choice Award. Women’s Choice Award is also the nation’s leading authority on building sale and loyalty among women, and is also the nation’s leading female consumer advocate. Delia is the former publisher of Working Women and Working Mother magazine, author of Winning the Toughest Customer and a renowned speaker. And in 2010, the Women’s Choice Award was launched to help women make smart choices. So Delia, I am all about smart choices. Your story is so worth sharing, and I can’t wait for the audience to hear it. Welcome to the show.
Delia Passi: Thank you, Nancy, I appreciate being here.
Nancy: I have been looking forward to this conversation. You know, when you and I were first introduced, you mentioned something about buying power. And it really raised my attention to the influence that women have in, you know, buying and selling. So could you share that with the audience.
Delia: Women are the chief purchasing officer here in the country. I mean, when you think even globally, women are responsible for the majority of the day to day purchases, she’s responsible for healthcare decisions for the household, she’s responsible for the decisions we make when it comes to back to school shopping for holidays. She is responsible for the sandwich generation, you know, person meaning that she’s responsible for her children herself, her husband or her significant other, and her parents. So women really are the most important our VIPs out there.
Nancy: Okay, and you know, I read somewhere and you quoted Tom Peters, who’s the author of the best seller, In Search of Excellence, he cites women in America as the largest single spending block on the planet, as he sees it, quote, it’s just plain stupid not to cater to them. So how do you go about catering to them? And why is it important to market to them in a way that the day are most receptive?
Delia: Well, it’s a, we call it the next new customer now. So where you’re talking to me in the middle of COVID, when everything that we knew a year ago on marketing, when it came to how purchasing behavior is out the window, so the consumer today, you have to be really astute, and you have to be a constant student on how women are buying now versus where, what they were doing a year ago, what’s influencing them now. So women in general, are tend to be more risk averse than men.
Men will shoot from the hip and then worry about it later, women are a lot more conservative in their purchasing behavior. They tend to think through decisions a lot more actually, in a survey we did with men across the country, we asked them what’s their one biggest pet peeve when it comes to shopping with women? And, you know, basically, they said, you know, she just takes so damn long to shop. It’s not about where we go to the supermarket. It’s not that guess what’s on the list. But you know, we’re making pitstops here and there along the way to read labels to check this out to sample things. And, you know, for men, it’s like, why can’t we just go to the store, get what’s on the list get out as quickly as possible. It’s the same situation at the mall, right? So for the men who are on the phone, they get it women ask them, you know, intuitively understand that that’s just the way we shop. So we are more gatherers than hunters.
And understanding that premise, first of all, is very important. The other piece of it is that women really value the opinion of other women. So that’s why the influencer community today is becoming more powerful than ever before. Because we really create loyalty with people that provide us with trusted advice, ideas, and make our life simple. So we tend to follow them. And those people that we follow and we trust, we tend to adhere to their recommendation.
So that’s endorsement marketing, and endorsement marketing today is the way to stand out because you could spend a fortune for those marketers and sales people out there, you could spend a fortune telling somebody how great you are. But it means nothing until somebody who has had experience with the brand says, Oh, yeah, no, excellent, I would definitely buy it. So today, it’s not what you say about your brand. It’s what others are saying about your brand that matters.
Nancy: Sure. So tell the audience a little bit more about Women’s Choice Award and why it’s so important to achieve that in promoting your business.
Delia: Well take a look at Amazon, and thank you, yeah, and permanently. So the Women’s Choice Award is is a symbol a beacon of empowerment, for women and for men to win looking for products based on the experience that other women have had with that product. So in order for a brand to earn the women’s Choice Award in any brand could try to qualify for it. We’re always open to seeing which brands are highly recommended by women. But the women’s Choice Award is a research based company and we do the research with women across America.
Every single week, we’re doing another national survey, asking women about the brands that they most recommend when we get a statistical sample. And when women weight that brand, nine out of 10, meaning over an 85% recommendation rating. That brand automatically qualifies their brand paid to earn the award. That brand qualifies and gets listed on the Women’s Choice Award. So it’s a way for us to help women identify the best, whether in retail or online.
Now, the Women’s Choice Award was created to empower the consumer. So if it really is a mission driven organization, our profits go to causes at the end of the year, I and we have over 700 brands now that have licensed the Women’s Choice Award to drive home that competitive advantage. Why is it important today? So when you go, let’s say Amazon, which is hard to find somebody who’s not loyal to Amazon these days, but right when when you go to Amazon, my husband laughs and teases me that I have a callus on my finger from swiping all day long. Okay. He says that if I don’t get a box delivered every day, I’ll probably have withdrawl…partially correct. So he’s not far from the truth. So when when you look at Amazon, I’ll give you an example.
I went to buy a diaper bag for a for a baby registry. Get for a baby gift, I wanted to buy a diaper bag. And I went on Amazon and put baby diaper bag. And every bag that I saw I had had over a four star rating. So what does that mean? Here I am a consumer trying to identify which is the best one I have 50 choices, and all of them are over four stars. So now I have now really stuck because now it’s leveled the playing field is useless, the stars become useless. Now one of them. I noticed zvera Wang had the women’s choice award. So I went to her product, I saw the image in her carousel of images. And of course, I chose the one that moms recommended most over all other bags. That became the easy choice. And it also made it easy for me to buy knowing that that new mom will love that product. So the Women’s Choice Award to come to differentiator out there in what I call the sea of sameness.
Nancy: You also talk I know that one of your concentrations is in health care. How are you helping when women find it because it’s always a difficult decision. I recently moved to Florida and I know in speaking with you, you gave me some guidance as to where to go to find the best medical care where I am locally.
Delia: The woman’s towards where thank you because this is my passion. The women’s choice awards was created after I was diagnosed with breast cancer and I made the horrific mistake of going to an imaging center instead of an accredited Breast Center over 10 years ago, for my for my diagnostics and what happened as a result was three additional surgeries that I did not need. If I had only gone to an accredited breast center with a high IQ with the highest level of diagnostic imagery that is available, there was a problem back then there was no way to find who they were, there was nothing zero zilch on the internet, to identify who those were those breast amateurs who they were.
So I needed a patch, and I left publishing and I started this company so that no woman would ever go through what I went through. So it comes from a place of passion. But it’s really because there was nothing out there. So now before you choose the hospital, you should go always to the Women’s Choice Award, our rating system is par nine, there is nothing not even US News can compare to was the integrity of our award is far beyond anything that’s out there, we do a deep dive on the hospitals, you can go in and read about those hospitals See for yourself. They’re reporting, we create transparency and health care. And breast centers, imaging centers were to have a baby were to have orthopedic surgery, you name it, we’re out there, we have a team of the most talented people doing research day and night on your behalf, so that you won’t make a poor healthcare choice.
Nancy: Wow. And how does that compare to other rating systems that awards use? Do you have any knowledge of that?
Delia: Yes, yes, we’re the we are fact based uniform and objective. We’re the only one who can say that. Everybody else, if you read our methodology, you could read our methodology for each one of the service lines in approximately a paragraph, you go to the healthgrades and UFC, you have to have a PhD to read through their methodology, because it’s so convoluted that it allows them a lot of wiggle room. And you know, who are clients of theirs? Who’s paying them?
All I’m saying is there is no one that’s my opinion. But But if you look and you and you look at our rating system versus others, you’ll see that we are 100% objective, in fact that we don’t take doctor, we don’t like you know, US News and others, for example, they take doctor recommendations into account. That’s subobjective, that’s not objective. That’s subjective. So we are, you know, doctors affiliated hospitals, of course, they’re going to choose their own people they want to, that’s why we came along, because we felt that there wasn’t anything out there. That was back base. And guess what, we all deserve the facts.
Nancy: Oh, absolutely believe in it. And, again, this was very eye opening to me when you and I were first introduced. Now one of the other projects or partners you have is with Walmart. And like Amazon, probably everybody has put a foot in the Walmart world in your shopping experience. So what are you doing with them now?
Delia: Yeah, so the one who starts where we do retail events at Walmart, of course, at some pause right now, but hopefully hoping to start up. So you go into Walmart, you’ll see women’s choice of what ambassadors in the store. We have Walmart mom hacks. on radio, you’ll hear my voice several times a day, in about 80% of the stores.
You’ll hear me throughout the day, delivering consumer tips. We also have a dedicated page on Walmart. So on walmart.com, there’s a dedicated women’s Choice Award page. And, and if you’re interested in learning more about any of those Walmart programs, please You know, contact me and I’ll you know give you my email now but you could always do info@womenschoiceaward or info@womencertified.com, women certified as a parent company. Women’s Choice Award is the brand. And my personal email is dpassi DPASSI@womenschoiceaward.com. So you could always do that. And I’ll also give you my phone number which is 954-922-0846. Extension two with my assistant, she’ll finally track me down and transfer you. But again, it’s 954-922-0846.
Nancy: And one thing about Delia, everyone that you call she gets back to you pretty rapidly, which is always refreshing.
Delia: Thank you. well, you know, it’s like to treat others like you’d like to be treated. And that’s the simple philosophy. I was raised with I learned in my church, you know, if we only do it to others as we’d like others to do unto us, we’d live in a much better world.
Nancy: Uh, well, I think that says a lot, especially in today’s climate. So, you know, I’m always interested asking people, something they believe that’s true that almost nobody would agree with them on. How about you? What, what do you think that’s true, that you you are challenged on.
Delia: So I wrote a book called Winning the Toughest Customer, the Essential Guide to Selling to Women. And I remember when it was published that, you know, I had to convince people, that selling to women or marketing to women differently was critical. You can, you know, not speaking and speaking in a unisex version doesn’t work. If I’m speaking to a man, I’m going to use a different communication pattern or skill set versus speaking to a woman, women, men tend to be more direct women tend to be more collaborative. Women definitely value more emotion words in the conversation.
Women are more indirect than men are men tend tend to tell you the way it is. It’s like, Hey, man, give a perfect example. Just watch the dynamics in your office, a man will go to the executive assistant, say Mary I’ll need this by Thursday morning. And typically, she says, I understand I’ll do my best. But a woman typically does not go to Mary and says the same thing. Or she will in a roundabout way. Say, Hey, Mary, I have a meeting. And I’d like to present this Thursday morning. Do you mind having it all packaged and ready for me by 9am? She gives usually she’s more collaborative in the approach, she tends to add more words, she tends to be a little bit more indirect like a nerd Do you mind? I know it’s going to mean you spending a couple extra hours on Wednesday. But do you mind doing this for me, blah, blah, blah, she tends to be more collaborative.
That is just the way of the world. We accept male talk differently than we accept women talk. So it’s just a, it’s just the way we are, we shouldn’t have to fight it. We should embrace it, learn how to sell it, get her toward it. And with it, instead of challenging that, you know, men and women needs to be treated equally all the time, even when it comes to selling.
Nancy: Yeah, no, I totally agree with you. So you know, in sales, as you know, there are different communication styles. And that also factors into female male ways of communicating. So that that’s really awesome to know. Last question, I mean, what is the one takeaway you want to leave the audience with?
Delia: Well, there’s a big opportunity to stand out today. But it’s not easy, right? So we live in a world where all of a sudden, if you’re in sales, which I think most of your followers are probably in marketing and sales, that they’re challenged right now. Like, you know how to why I have to do everything through phone and video. I have my people are not seeing my products and stores I anymore. I am restricted. So I believe that there’s a big opportunity to stand out and be creative in how you will capture people’s attention, leaving video messages instead of audio messages, using the Women’s Choice Award in your presentations or sending out announcements that our product is is loved by women, and we’re so proud and honored to earn this award. There are ways to stand out today. Again, there’s a sea of sameness out there. And we’re all we’re all swimming in it. So stand out.
Nancy: Yeah. And on that note, I really encourage you all to take advantage of getting in touch with Delia. She’s got such great insight as to how to help your business, your brand, attract more and more of the buying community. And in one word, the buying community is mostly women. So thank you so much, Delia, for joining us today. And just as a repeat, how can they find you? What is your website?
Delia: Yeah, so the website, the corporate side is womencertified.com w o m e n women certified. Through there, you can get to Women’s Choice Award. You can see what we’re doing you could reach out contact us. And my number is 954-922-0846 hit extension two that’ll go to Kathy my assistant and she’ll connect up or you’ll leave a message and I’ll get back to you.
Nancy: You got it. So, for everyone out there, make it a good rest of the day. Happy hunting. Focus on staying positive. Pay attention to these amazing people that I’m bringing on the show. They all have wonderful ideas. Delia, you know, I really just love the work that you and your company is doing for women in general.
Delia: Thank you, Nancy and thank you to the audience for listening today was nice to virtually connect.
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by Nancy Calabrese | Dec 28, 2020 | Podcast
On this week’s episode of Conversational Selling, we speak with special guest, international bestselling author and speaker, Darrell Amy. Darrell is a growth strategist who has consulted with Fortune 500 tech companies, specializing in providing clients with strategies to recover and grow revenue. He is also the author of The Revenue Growth Engine: How to Align Sales and Marketing to Accelerate Growth and the co-host of the Selling From The Heart Podcast.
Darrell’s mission is to help businesses “Rebound strong and build an engine that will accelerate growth through recovery and beyond.”
Darrell shares his best practices from 27 years in sales, as well as:
- The importance of growth rate acceleration
- How the Revenue Growth Engine began
- The keys to unlocking revenue growth
- And more…
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Transcript
Voiceover: You’re listening to the Conversational Selling podcast with Nancy Calabrese.
Nancy Calabrese: Hi, everybody, it’s Nancy Calabrese. And this is Conversational Selling. It’s the podcast where sales leaders and business experts share what’s going on in sales and marketing today. And it all starts with the human conversation. I’m so excited to have Darrell Amy with us today, a growth strategist, author and speaker, his international bestseller revenue growth engine, how to align sales and marketing to accelerate growth provides companies with strategies to recover and grow revenue, especially during these wild crazy times. He’s also the co-host of selling from the heart podcast, which is a wonderful program. He’s trained 1000s of salespeople in solution selling created digital marketing strategy for hundreds of companies, and consulted with fortune 500 technology companies, but simply put, he knows what works and what doesn’t work. So Darrell, I’m going to speak for everyone in the audience today by saying we love solutions and can’t wait to hear about what works and what not. So, welcome to the show.
Darrell Amy: Thank you, Nancy. It’s fantastic. fantastic to be here. And we definitely need solutions right now, because there is no shortage of problems, right?
Nancy: Oh, my gosh, you are so right. And, you know, I want to start off with a bold statement that I have found on your website. And I think this resonates with all of us. Key right now is to rebound strong, build an engine that will accelerate your growth through the recovery and beyond. And I know we’re all looking to do that. So what is your unique idea around this?
Darrell: Well, the way to look at this right now a lot of companies are really struggling with how do we set goals? I know, you know, you look at your revenue right now. And for, you know, if you’re one of the companies that’s taken a hit in this current season, and most have, you know, the obvious question is, how are we going to rebound quickly. And the reality is the growth rate that most companies had before the crisis is not going to get them out of the crisis fast enough. So if you were having, you know, if you’re growing 10%, year over year, let’s say, just a nice, you know, steady march forward. The reality is that 10%, year over year is going to take you a long time if he dropped revenue, say 30 or 40%. So, the reality right now Nancy, we’ve got to figure out how to accelerate growth. And the way that the way that we coach people through accelerating growth is actually really simple.
And it’s by asking the question, what is the way? What are the two things that drive revenue growth, and if you think about it, there are really only two ways to drive growth, we get more net new business, land, new deals, get new logos, or we cross sell more to our existing client base. And in reality is, when I go into most organizations, this is a great question for everyone listening in to ask themselves is of those two, which are we good at, and which are we maybe not quite so good at? The reality is most organizations are usually good at either net new, or they’re good at cross selling. The exciting thing is if you can get both net new and cross sell going at the same time, it’s like putting your foot to the floor and that BMW, it really helps accelerate the growth in revenue in the numbers are really exciting when you see modest growth in both of those areas simultaneously.
Nancy: Well, you’re jumping the gun, this we’re going to speak about that BMW story.
Darrell: BMW.
Nancy: So I hear you’re a great storyteller, and everybody loves stories. What’s the good story for the audience today?
Darrell: Ah, you know that there have been so many stories that I think about you in the district that are remembering today, is where the idea from the revenue growth engine came from. I spent my whole career in sales and marketing, 27 years in sales and about 17 years of that I also was a partner in a marketing agency, just working with all this fun, new stuff going on in digital marketing. And so I get invited to speak at a lot of conferences and I was speaking at this conference was a group of marketing professionals, sales leaders and company owners and they had me there to talk. They were all there to talk about growing revenue. Problem was, you know, you walk in the room, you can just see the marketing people are all sitting at the front of the room. They’re very excited about the latest and greatest marketing automation technology. And by the way, there is some amazing technology out there right now.
But they were looking back. The next kind of phase back in the room was the sales leaders and sales managers VPS of sales. And you can see the sales managers you knew you knew who they were because they were sitting there with their arms folded. And you can almost see the thought bubbles popping up over their head going, Oh, my goodness, what are we doing here? We should be out selling something, you know, these leads are garbage. This is a waste of time. Well, you know, that type of stuff, right. And then, of course, the thought bubbles over the marketing people’s heads are these salespeople are a bunch of Neanderthals, they don’t get it, you know, they’re living in the past. And then at the back of the room, the favorite part was that there were some business owners in the back of the room, the executives are standing there, and that they’re drinking their coffee looking out over this room.
And they’re just I know, there’s that you can see them thinking and actually, I’ve validated it afterwards, as I was talking with them over drinks that evening is like, why can’t we all get along and figure out a way to make this work. And the reality is, you know, marketing people think about marketing sales, people think about selling, but the real thing that we’re aiming towards is revenue growth. And the way we grow revenue is by adding more clients, especially ideal clients. So that’s where the revenue growth engine concept came from is saying, Let’s focus our efforts, whether we’re in marketing, whether it’s sales, let’s focus on these ideal client prospects. And, you know, then let’s ask ourselves, what can we do to drive more net new? And what can we do to cooperate to cross sell? And that was the beginning of the revenue growth engine and this journey of helping companies align marketing and sales to actually get results.
Nancy: Yeah, you know, I mean, you often hear that there’s a disconnect between both divisions, if you would, why is that? It doesn’t make any sense. It makes way more sense for everybody to work and collaborate together.
Darrell: It does. But I think that having spent you know what, my whole career in sales straight out of college and B2B sales in a really tough, challenging industry. So I’ve got sales, my blood, and by the way, I am a recovering sales professional and down to therapy twice a week. Now it’s going pretty well. But I love sales, I absolutely love it. And then also, I just got dragged into this marketing thing. I had a marketing degree in my hip pocket. And when I started my sales training company, my first client said, Hey, Darryl, all this stuff we taught our sales team is fantastic. Our websites, how to date, do you build websites? And being the first client I was foolish enough to say, Yes, sir, we build websites. And I built, I already built one for nonprofit and for my church as well, but that, you know, so I’ve had a foot in both worlds. And in reality is, we talk different languages. And I was on a call, earlier this week doing a growth strategy workshop with a technology company up in your neck of the woods in the northeast.
And you know, they want to drive revenue growth, they’ve got to recover lost revenue. And so we’re putting a plan together, and they’ve got marketing and sales and operations in the room. And so this, the sales, people talk about sales process, marketing people, they talk about saying, you know, they talk about a customer journey, and the, you know, they talk about the buyer’s journey, and all the marketing speak around that the operations people, they actually talk about business processes. So everyone’s describing the same thing. They’re just describing it in their own language with a focus on what they do. So what I think comes of what I see working is when companies go Okay, yes, sales, yes, marketing, yes, operations. The real real issue is what? Let’s all focus on our ideal client. And let’s talk about the ideal client experience. So rather than talk about a sales process, what’s the experience that a client has with our company throughout the buying experience and their experience, once they become a client? Then when we look at that ideal client experience, and start to understand that, what are they thinking, what are they feeling? What’s holding them back? What, you know, what do we want to happen, then, and everyone comes to the table and marketing goes on?
Well, we could do this to support the client experience, sales. Yeah, we could do this to support the client experience and get them moving through faster and even operations. And so what we’re finding is just like when you take your car to the shop, if it’s out of alignment, you know, one wheels pulling to the left, the other is pulling to the right, and that describes a lot of a lot of companies with sales and marketing. When you put it up on the rack to get aligned at that at the shop, they’re actually going to focus on the back wall of the shop. Well, that dot that companies need to focus on in is their eyes. Ideal ideal client, their ideal prospect. And when you look at things through the lens of the experience that that client has, then sales and marketing can start to speak a common language towards a common objective. And we’re seeing companies finally begin to align around it. And it’s so funny, Nancy, you see, it depends, you know who you’re talking to. Because when they’re talking about alignment, they’ll either say, sales and marketing alignment, or they’ll say, marketing and sales alignment, and you can get the sales people and I guess I betrayed myself a little bit, because on the front of revenue growth engine, it says how to align sales and marketing. But, but the reality is, if this, if we look from the perspective of the ideal clients, we want to bring on board, the, the sales and marketing and operations stuff starts to come into focus. And we actually are able to get alignment in some organizations for the very first time.
Nancy: Well, how long does a process like that take?
Darrell: Well, it doesn’t have to take very long at all. And, you know, the reality is, is it’s, I mean, the process of having that enlightening moment where we get, we all get in the same room and get around same objectives, were able to accomplish that in a day at an organization now the building out of that of the processes to support it, and then the communication between these different functions to make sure that it all, it all works to create an amazing client experience. You know, that’s a journey that plays out and becomes part of an organization’s DNA. So but you know, it could happen right here right now, the podcast, it’s all about the client experience.
Nancy: It is and my experience so far with you is I think you’re a car buff, because you use car analogies. And I love the analogy that you used in your book about not running on all cylinders. So share, share what that’s about?
Darrell: Well, so and I am a car buff, and I, you know, so I guess the growth engine and the alignment and all of that stuff just seems to work for me that we’ve all got, you know, there’s all kinds of different engines. Let me let me just talk about it this way. I mean, if you have a lawn mower, that lawnmower has an engine, it probably has two cylinders, maybe four in it. If you’ve got a you know, if you’ve got a BMW that has an engine, finely tuned engine, probably a six or eight cylinders. If you have a Ferrari, it might even have 12 cylinders. The reality is the ability of an engine to accelerate the vehicle is based on the cylinders, how much horsepower Do you have. And it’s interesting, because when you look at an organization, when it comes to driving that new business, there’s things marketing can do to help that there’s processes sales can do to help that when it comes to cross selling, same thing, sales plays a role. Marketing plays a role. The cylinders in your organization, I think they’re like processes. process is something that happens over and over again, just like cylinder and an engine, it just fires, right.
The reality is, most companies don’t have a lot of process in their sales and marketing. Especially when it comes to the thing they’re not good at. So if you’re good at net new, you’ve probably got great prospecting processes, etc. But if you’re not good at cross sell, do you have a good client manage? Do you have a good set of client management processes? And if not, what would happen if you created processes? For client management? We saw this one organization in South Florida great company, fantastic sales team went in to do a growth strategy workshop. And so what’s your goal for net new and they said we want you know, steady that new growth a 10% year over year. And at the beginning of the workshop, he said, Why are we here? And they said we need more net new business. And that’s the What’s your goal? 10%. So what did you do last year? 9.8%.So I kind of laughed. Like y’all are now going well, we’ll get why am I here? But when it came to cross sell this particular organization at a whole new business unit, they had a new offering for their clients. They’d spent hundreds of 1000s of dollars in people and training. And I asked how their cross sell effort was going into this new area and they just rolled their eyes. Everyone’s like, oh, my goodness, this has been a train wreck, right?
We haven’t sold anything. Well, if you peel it back, when you look at that area of their business with net new business, they had prospecting processes, they had target account programs, they had all kinds of sales tools. They were crushing it with their ability to bring on a new logo. But when it came to actually managing those clients and going deeper and wider in the organization to cross sell, there wasn’t any process. You know, the only thing that was there was, hey, go talk to these people about buying this new thing. So what’s incredible is one simple process organizations can put in place in that area of the business cross selling, they put a sales process in. That said, our clients that are that meet the profile of being an ideal client, meaning they can buy all of this amazing new stuff that we sell wasn’t a fit for every client, but the Wednesday was where we’re going to start a quarterly business review process. And so they didn’t just say, we’re going to do a quarterly business review, they created a model for it, they created a process to set the meetings up, train the reps on how to do the meetings, make them the value add, and then how to follow up on those meetings. And, you know, that process is already yielding results. So their cross sell revenue is beginning to accelerate. So going back to the beginning, if you keep that net new going, and you can accelerate cross sell, you’ll see exponential revenue growth. And, in fact, it’s kind of fun, there’s, we, I’m not too much of a marketing and sales guy.
So I’m not too much of a spreadsheet guy. But we actually put a spreadsheet together on this where you can very simply enter your number of customers and your total revenue and set a goal for growth in both net new and cross sell, and it forecasts it out. And that you can get it by the way, if you text revenue to 21,000. revenue to 21,000. But it’s really amazing how, you know, in a lot of ways, Nancy, it’s not like dramatic things that need to be done. You just add these processes in. And over time, it’s like you’re adding cylinders to your engine. And next thing, you know, you go to get on the freeway, and you hit the gas. And you go, Whoa, this is good. Right?
Nancy: Yeah. And I think it’s a free download, isn’t it? On your way?
Darrell: Yeah, it is. It is there’s all kinds of tools, it’s actually growing list of tools, there. But that, that spreadsheet, right, there is a great eye opener in terms of the potential to accelerate revenue growth, by just entering a couple simple numbers, so you can start to see the potential. So yeah, definitely check it out revenue, tax revenue to 21,000. But it’s these processes. One of the things we could go down this rabbit trail a long way, I think if you go into most sales and marketing departments, and you know, HR has processes, accounting has processes shipping and receiving has processes, sales and marketing, usually the Wild West, right? You got some gunslingers making some calls, and you got some marketing people running some campaigns here and there. But where’s the consistent processes? What happens though, when you start putting them in place, you start to accelerate growth. And that’s exciting.
Nancy: Yeah, I downloaded it. So I recommend that everybody find your way to it and download it, I think it’s really going to be a helpful tool for one of a kind sales and sticking with one of a kind sales. And I would be remiss if I didn’t bring this up. You know, we’re all about prospecting. And I saw on your website about the three overlooked keys of sales prospecting, and yes, love you to explain what they are.
Darrell: Well, as you might guess, one of them is process. And so that’s right. This is true, even if you’re great at net new business, you know, it always is good to look at your prospecting process, it’s one of the core cylinders in your growth engine. And, you know, if you look at the data, whether you’re looking@salesforce.com that says it takes six to eight touches to get an appointment, Forrester says it’s over 14 the point of the whole thing is it takes more than one touch to get a net new appointment and it’s got to be over you know, multiple different channels because not everybody checks email listens to their messages on their phone, etc. So in order to make that happen, you know, nowadays it just can’t be a one and done there’s got to be a process gets make a phone call and go well, they didn’t return my call as I’ve done. So. So what’s the process? Well, that’s where you know, you take a look and you go okay, how are we going to do this? Let’s get a message that’s going to resonate inside that process and then let’s look for some enabling technologies to help make sure that process gets executed and is measurable it it cetera in so processes the first one, the second is priorities. And in the article I put priorities first cuz well that just kind of makes sense. Right?
But you have to prioritize. You have to prioritize prospecting and my friend Jeb blunt, you know is is adamant about something. I agree with whole heartedly with, which is you got to block this stuff out in your calendar. If you’re a sales professional or you lead a sales team, and there are not scheduled blocks of time in the calendar for prospecting, guess what, it’s not going to happen, you’re going to get pushed to the last last part of the day. So I’m, I’m, I am fanatical about that tip of the hat to Jeb, once again, in terms of making sure they’re blocks on my calendar for prospecting. And, you know, it’s just an appointment that has to be, you know, it’s a frog, like you got to you got to eat that you got to eat that one first. Because at the beginning of the day, you got to get that one done. And the last is practice. And, you know, it’s interesting, this is something that that, you know, when I was a sales rep back in the dark ages, we, we had the, we had over, we had the like the transparency, so this is really going to date me, but we have the objections, and the sales manager would put the the objection up, and you have little piece of paper hiding the answer on that projector, and that we would practice right we would roleplay. And I don’t know where that went in a lot of organizations, it seems like that just kind of, I don’t know, just went away.
Well, guess what? No high performance. athlete gets anywhere without practice, no high performance professional speaker gets anywhere without practice. And I think that inside our sales team practice is the third P. And it doesn’t even have to be inside a sales team. If you’re a rep listening in on this call, you know, prioritize, build yourself a process and find someone to practice you know, just get repeat over and over again and get to where this stuff that that you need to know is, is second nature and you know, people go Terrell, you know, that’s isn’t that scripted, yes. But once you internalize that kind of stuff, and you can, then you can dance between the lines, but until you do, you’re going to spend all your time trying to go What am I saying now? So, you know, I’m a huge fan of practice.
Nancy: Oh, so am I and, you know, to your point with the scripts, the beauty of having a script is you don’t have to think about what you have to say I think sales really kicks in when you get the objections. So to internalize, especially the opening conversation, get that down in your head, allows you to spend more time in really a role playing and practicing and getting those objections out, you know, when you need to happen, because you never know where you’re going to hear. Right. When you’re on a prospecting call. Yeah. Okay. So tell me something that’s true that almost nobody agrees with you on.
Darrell: Okay, this one’s gonna be fun. Because there’s a lot of things that I think it’s tricky. But that may spark some debate this, here’s one, and this is a sales and marketing. One is salespeople don’t need leads. We just don’t need leads. And here’s what I mean. You go What are you kidding me? salespeople are beating up marketing, give me more leads, salespeople are going to their companies give me more leads. But in most, and I, I’m gonna put a bit of a footnote on this, I work in the B2B sales space. And in the B2B sales space, we help our clients identify who their ideal clients and prospects are. So you know, the reality is if you’ve got a marketplace and just think of, we’re talking earlier about the South Florida marketplace, 90,000 businesses in the South Florida marketplace. And this particular company had eight salespeople doesn’t work, they could prospect 24 hours a day, and it wouldn’t cover that market, because it takes years to cover the market.
So but the reality is, there’s 90,000 businesses, if they’re really honest, they look at their ideal client profile, there’s about 2000 of them that are really, really, really good fit. So guess what? I don’t need leads anymore, I need to know, I already know who the people are, if I have an ideal client profile. And if I have, if I’ve got an ideal client profile, I know who my prospects are in my marketplace. So I don’t need leads. I need engagement. And so, you know, this is where and this this is we talked about this in the revenue growth engine book. You know, I don’t you know, everyone, sales teams want to have service level agreements with marketing for leads. I don’t want that because what I really want is, I want in this whatever that 2000 companies that are ideal prospects, I want as a team I want 100% coverage, meaning that all of the key decision makers and influencers in those 2000 accounts, hear from my sales people regularly with valuable message and hear from my marketing team regularly with a valuable message that I mean, and it’s really on one level that simple. The execution needs processes. But the reality of this is we don’t need lead sales people stop complaining, you don’t have leads, you already know who your ideal prospects are not go figure that out. And then you’ll never need a lead again, what you need to do is be engaging with those ideal prospects. Yep.
Nancy: Oh, I so again, I agree with you, people are under the impression they need 1000s of leads. And as you said earlier, if you don’t have the manpower to cover it, you’re wasting your time, you’re never going to have an effective program out there.
Darrell: Well, I mean, sales people go to the lead fancy they go, all these leads are garbage? Well, if they’re not with an ideal prospect, they probably are. not that useful. All right, and really what we need to know, you know, and we could talk about this maybe another episode, you know, nothing’s qualified lead. until it is, it is attached to an ideal prospect in a lot of ways. But but the lead thing is where a sales and marketing get out of alignment, I just say Stop it. Stop. Yeah. Let’s just focus on engagment.
Nancy: Hey everybody did you hear that? Stop it. Oh, what is the one takeaway you’d like to leave the audience with? I’m guessing there’s more than one, but what is the one that will come to your mind?
Darrell: Yeah, I am going to pick one. And, you know, and this, this is, there’s what I’m about to say is backed up by so many people as that in Mark hunter comes to mind right now. And we were just talking about this with his new book of mind for sales is this ideal client profile, knowing who your ideal client is, is a key to unlocking revenue growth and accelerating revenue growth, we find that ideal clients and and in the book will show you how to do the math, but on average, ideal clients or we call it 20x or 30x clients, because they’re usually worth 20 to 30 times the revenue. And I’m not talking when I say ideal clients about fortune 500 companies necessarily, I’m just talking about good fit clients and know who your ideal clients are, then you’ll know then then that defines the processes you put together to prospect and to manage your clients that defines the message that you put together that’s going to resonate. And then that also will explain in the book how that can define your ability to set goals realistically based on the value so I would say at all you know, this ideal client profile is really where it all begins and we walk you through how to have a think about that in the early part of the revenue growth engine book.
Nancy: Okay, everyone go out and buy it Darrell, tell us how my people or tell everyone how they can reach you.
Darrell: Well I would love to engage with you the fastest way is just text the word revenue to 21000 we’ll give you some access to resources course revenue growth engine is available where all fine books are sold. And you can also look me up on LinkedIn there’s not that many people with the last name Amy, first name Darrell and I’d love to connect with you on LinkedIn.
Nancy: Oh, take advantage of that offer everyone and you are not only informative, you’re highly entertaining. Thank you for everyone for joining me and for all my audience out there. Keep in mind the overlooked piece of sales prospecting and really start taking a good hard look at sales and marketing. Thank you so much, Darrell, and happy hunting for everyone.
Darrell: Thank you Nancy.
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by Nancy Calabrese | Dec 22, 2020 | Podcast
Our special guest on this week’s episode of Conversational Selling is Mark Hunter. He’s the author of three best-selling books, High Profit Prospecting, High Profit Selling, and most recently, A Mind for Sales, and is recognized as one of the top 50 most influential Sales and Marketing Leaders in the world. His mission is to help others increase their influence, impact, and income.
Mark says, “When you change your mindset, you will change your customers’ mindset, and you’ll change your results.”
We chat about getting into sales by necessity, as well as:
- Not being afraid of using the phone for prospecting
- Why getting in front of customers is more important now than ever
- Sales as a lifestyle, not just a profession
- Blocking out dedicated time for your prospecting calls
- And more
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Transcript
Voiceover: You’re listening to the Conversational Selling podcast with Nancy Calabrese.
Nancy Calabrese: Hi, it’s Nancy Calabrese and this is Conversational Selling. It’s the podcast where sales leaders and business experts share what’s going on in sales and marketing today. And it all starts with the human conversation. I am so thrilled to have Mark Hunter, also known as the Sales Hunter on the show today, he’s recognized as one of the top 50 most influential Sales and Marketing Leaders in the world. He’s the author of three best selling books, his most recent is A Mind for Sales. And Mark, I’m going to ask you about what’s going on with that today. And we are here at one of the kinds of sales are huge fans of his excellent advice and insight. You know, Mark doesn’t view sales as a job but as a lifestyle. And he believes that when you live sales in this way, you have the ability to create deep relationships that impact others. And boy, do I agree with that? His mission is to help others see sales in this manner, which in turn helps them increase their influence, impact and income. Well, you know, Mark, it seems like forever since we’ve spoken. I’m sure you’ve been pretty busy. Welcome to the show.
Mark Hunter: Thank you for having me on. I’m looking forward to we always enjoy talking now we get to talk with an audience. I love it.
Nancy: Oh, I love it. I love it. So, you know, let me just open up by asking you what are you seeing out there? Give me your pulse on what’s going on in the amazing world of sales.
Mark: Well, the pulse right now is we’re kind of recording this during this COVID environment as people are still confused. I mean, it is amazing. Some businesses are doing absolute gangbusters. Others are like that. And, but what it’s telling me is that there’s opportunities out there, but boy, we have to look for the niche. We have to be looking for the niche more than ever if we want to be successful. There’s business, a lot of business out there. Okay.
Nancy: Yeah. You know, I always like to open up with a story or two. And I’m your story is pretty darn interesting. How did you get involved in sales? I think my audience would like to hear that.
Mark: Oh, how did I get involved with sales? I I really was, you know, I was not a born salesperson despite having the last name Hunter. And yes, that is my real last name. I was not I was not a born salesperson. I got into sales only because of the police department. Yes. The police department. Yeah, yeah, yeah, yeah. effect. I talked about it my book of mind for sales. And what would happen was I was in college, and I got too many speeding tickets, then nobody was hurt. Nobody was harmed.
But I got too many speeding tickets. And I paid them. But you know, when you’re in college, you’re not responsible for your actions, right? So I just kind of ignored them. Well, what happened was my insurance went through the roof. I could no longer afford car insurance. So I had to find a job that supplied me with a car. So guess what, I wound up getting a sales job because taxicab drivers to do background checks. I got a really flashy sales job, but it’s plagued with a car. That’s how
Nancy: I wound up in sales. Wow. Well, now, you know, somebody told me you were not a born salesperson, which is totally hard to believe. Tell me about that.
Mark: Well, yeah, I mean, simply the fact that I went to college to get a degree in marketing. I mean, that’s that’s really what I want to do. I wanted to be in marketing because back when that when I went to college, that was kind of the cool thing. And so yeah, so I wound up like I said, having to get a sales job because marketing can supply you with company cars. And that but I’m so bad at sales. I was so bad. I got fired for my first two sales jobs.
Nancy: Can you believe that now? Why? Yeah, well, that
Mark: I was bad because I wasn’t listening to the customer. I, I kind of viewed the customer as if they were a bowling pin. And it was just meant to be knocked over take the money and run. And yeah, I mean, I was making some sales. But the problem was I was leaving a mess behind me. They were not pretty winners.
Nancy: You stuck with it. What made you stick with it?
Mark: Because I needed a car. You know, if it was my third job, it was my third sale shop third company car that I finally I got hit over the head literally by my boss. And he sat me down. And long story short, I don’t probably tell him my next book. He told me that I wasn’t listening to my customer. And he went through this whole process to give me examples of how it wasn’t listening to my customer. And as a result, I wasn’t serving your needs. And it was amazing. But when I began to realize that sales is not about the product, but about the person you’re helping, suddenly, things began to change. Then it began to take on a whole new meaning. Now, it wasn’t like the light bulb got bright, all sudden. But over the next 3, 4, 5 years, it really got pretty bright to the point now that I love sales. And I love this is weird. I love prospecting. Ohhhh!
Nancy: You know, and I think you anticipated my next question, because I think why we easily connected was our common denominator that prospecting is the be all and end all for sales? Share your thoughts about it. And why are so many people afraid of it?
Mark: Well, people are afraid people are afraid of sales. And they’re really afraid of prospecting, because they’re afraid of hearing the word. No, they’re afraid of hearing all this. But you know what, I have yet to turn on the internet, go out to the Internet, and find a headline where salesperson is bludgeoned to death or shot because of making because I’m making a prospecting call.
You know, it’s just no, no blood has ever been shed. No. And my whole view about prospecting, my whole view about sales, sums up in this sense. My goal is to help others see and achieve what they did not think was possible. That’s my goal. That’s my goal. That’s what sales is helping others. Boy, I wish we were on video right now. Because my what my arms are flying all over the past. My goal is to help others see and achieve what they didn’t think was possible.
And think about that. When you put that into context. It is amazing. As sales suddenly becomes a different. It becomes something different to you, because now you’re helping people and prospecting. I get it people. People don’t wake up in the mornings. And then I hope a salesperson calls me today. No, I get that. But customers don’t know what they don’t know. I mean, right now You and I both have 1000 people at least who need what we have to offer. Every listener has at least 1000 people that needs what they have often. They don’t know it, and they won’t know it until we pick up the phone. We make the call we get out there in front of them. We talked to them.
Nancy: Well, but answered this, you know, this baffles me. Why are so many sales people afraid to pick up the phone?
Mark: Because, oh, because they just would rather send a text message or an email. Hey, here’s what I look at it. It’s a conversation it is it is just a conversation. You know what? When you hang up every phone call, look, it’s not going to bring world peace. It’s not going to change the course of mankind. The sun’s still going to come up in the morning. It’s just a phone call. Relax, right? And yet, for some reason, people freak out. You know, the people who freak out the most about having to pick up the phone and make a sales call are the ones who really don’t even want to talk on the phone themselves. I had a guy call me one time no answer. He sent me an email. He said don’t understand. Nobody ever uses the telephone number. Yeah, it was funny because because the guy left the guy left us over. You know the message. So I call him first I got his voicemail. Did I ever hear back from him? No.
Nancy: Yeah, I I’m, I’m just baffled. And I think the best part of making a call is you can hang up, if it really goes wrong. You know, I mean, and and think about the time you save and the money you save traveling to and from, it’s a no brainer, and yet people look at cold calling as that evil monster. And so, you know, through people like you that you know, really believe in it and keep putting great content out about it. I urge everyone listening to this to really take advantage of what Mark does and what he generates. You know, keeping in mind with prospecting, why is it so especially critical during times like these?
Mark: Well, right now, we And sales have to be seen by our customers. This is an attitude I want every salesperson as our customers r&d department, we are their research and development department. Right now every I mean, I’ve already had two or three phone calls this morning from various people. One was a VP of sales, substantially large company, really struggling with issues how to deal with right now. And I was so glad I was having a phone call with them, walk them through some things. But you know, we were putting together plan as to how I’m going to help him. I mean, this is right now more than ever, our customers, our prospects our lead to ever it is nice to hear from us.
Because we have now saw that we’ve gone through COVID before now, nobody’s gone through COVID before. But I equate this. We are like the captain of a ship, who has you know, really understands their ship, really understand sailing really understands everything. Suddenly, they’re thrust into the middle of an unbelievable storm. Now they’ve never been in the middle of that storm before that storm is new, every storm is unique. But because of all their expertise, they’re able to figure out a solution, they’re able to figure out a way to bring their ship and their crew through that storm. That’s what we are to our customers. We are I mean to me right now sales is a privilege because of our ability to help people. I mean, to me, I and I know there are people out there who go essential, we’re I believe it’s so strong. That’s why sales is not a job. It’s not a profession. It’s a lifestyle.
Nancy: It’s a lifestyle. Yeah, yeah. And, you know, in keeping in line with that, it’s just having that connection with another human being over the phone is just, it’s like shaking hands. And I, I really feel strongly and I want to ask your opinion, you know, even with now, this crazy world in which we live, outside sales reps better get comfortable with phone conversations. What do you have to say about that?
Mark: Well, it is true. I mean, I do a lot of work in industrial sales where those sales can reduce being in their truck being in their car, and they’re going out there a golf now they’re like, they’re like, freaking out. They got to be on the phone. But here’s the here’s my whole thing. Okay, so so many people are having to work from an office or work from home. We’ll call it wfh work work from home. But remember, customers are now bfh buying from home. Right? Right. So stop and think about it. It may be weird for you, but it’s weird for them to because they have a new stock in their office, you’re used to having them stuff in their job site. I look at it this way. This process. I I’m really questioning how I ever had time to travel before COVID. I mean, I am busier than ever. My head is spinning because I have so many things out there.
Nancy: Well, it’s the amount of time that you’ve saved, home traveling back and forth. And yet you can still get work done. And as you just said, You’re busier than ever.
Mark: It is absolutely insane. I have to leave my office here today and go make a sales call here in a couple hours. And But fortunately, only about a 10 minute drive. And it’s funny. I do kind of laugh. My Account made the comment networks you’re spending a lot less money on American Airlines. Yeah.
Nancy: Well, America may not like that.
Mark: Well I know American may not like that. Yes, but I still hate. I love American Airlines. Hashtag I love American Airlines. Okay. Yeah. But yeah, you’re right. I mean, it is it’s there are so many things out there. And it’s amazing what the telephone that the telephone is such a Hey, I want to jump back to that whole cold calling thing. No, it’s very interesting about cold calling. is if you’re thinking about it in this day and age. And if you really follow the guidebook in terms of ICP, ideal customer profile, you know, your, your, your persona, you know, you have a targeted list of people you want to call, don’t look at those as cold calls.
Those are warm calls. Because you know what, these are people who fit the profile of who you want to be calling. So I I’m kind of at the point now that I’m really not even using the word. I mean, I make cold calls. But then that cold calls, because I’ve either done some research on that individual person, or at least I know, they match up in this industry this vertical. So they’re going to match me. So I mean, I want them to be excited. Okay, I guess they’re not excited. But I’m excited because I’m going to hopefully help you.
Nancy: Yeah, you know it you know, you have me thinking as you’re describing that meeting a new friend. Right? You have to start somewhere. And the first conversation really is cold when you meet a new friend, because you don’t know anything about them. And yet we do that all throughout our lives. Right? And I’m thinking, what is the wall that comes up with many? I’m going to say most sales people, when they have to pick up that phone and have a conversation with a stranger. That’s all it is.
Mark: It is it is just a conversation. And this is where I get so irritated at salespeople who are making these calls, and they want to go into this 32nd pitch. Shut up. ask them a question, engage, engage them. Nobody wants to hear a 32nd. But what they do want, they do want to engage in a conversation. And wow, when I can have a call that you didn’t expect my call, and I get you involved in the conversation, and I can’t because you know, think about this. You and I mean, right now, I mean, is our tone and our voice. And our personality coming through on this unit is Yeah, yeah, I bet it is. That’s what I say with a call with a prospecting call. Let your personality come through. Unless you’re the crazy aunt or weird uncle in the family, then you need to do something different.
Nancy: Talk about why time management is so critical in today’s sales world.
Mark: This is huge, because here’s the thing, because oh, I got to make all these prospecting calls. Oh, I don’t want so I make up excuses. I make up excuses. And it’s so easy to fill the day. We’re doing everything but making your prospecting calls you have to have if you’re not time management, if you don’t have time management. It is amazing how you won’t get around to doing your prospecting calls.
So you do you have to block out time. You’ve got to have your prospecting hour, you got to have your prospecting window. You you’ve got to manage your day based off your talent or just as today, we had set it [11:30] eastern time, we’re going to connect and we’re going to record this podcast. It’s a dedicated time. And when I get done here, I’ve got another activity. I’ve got another activity and I even have on my calendar this afternoon for one hour prospecting calls. If you could see my calendar, it’s Mark prospecting calls. Now, we’re also recording. Oh, but wait, hold on, hold on. I’m sorry. Friday afternoons. You can’t prospect Oh, no. Hey, it’ll be Friday afternoon. And you know what? I’m loving it. I have my best prospecting calls on Friday afternoon.
Nancy: Oh, you are so right. You are so right. So do we. So do we. Not every qualification. I thought you like me for all other reasons as well. I like you too. So you know what? Tell me something that’s true. That almost nobody agrees with you on.
Mark: That sales is fun. Even in the okay, okay, so you’re weird like me, okay. But But very few people will. And also prospecting is fun. Very few people, you know, you know, I will share that in a meeting, I’ll share that when I’m speaking to a group or whatever. And people look at me like that. We’re No, and I even in the toughest of times, it can be fun. Because I look at sale, I look at each customer as if they’re a Rubik’s Cube. Now the first time around. And my whole objective is, is to get all those colors to line up, right? And give me a really screwed up Rubik’s Cube. And man, it’s going to drive me crazy, but I’m going to pull it off. I’m going to pull it off.
Nancy: Yeah. Hi, I agree with you. Talk about what you’d like to leave the audience with today in In summary, and know share with them a takeaway that they can walk away with and if they apply it this week, it’ll it’ll improve their activities and their results.
Mark: Yeah, it really is about your mindset. And at the end of the day, your objective is to know that you have spent the day influencing and impacting others. I may have calls that don’t go well. But if I can say that I have the ability to influence and impact others. And you know what? I had a great day. Sales is not a destination. It’s a journey of helping people. And when we look at sales with that mindset, to me, that’s the takeaway. When you change your mindset, you will change Your customers mindset. And you’ll change your results.
Nancy: Yeah. help keeping in in line with that. Talk a little bit about your amazing book. Your latest. Yeah.
Mark: Well, latest book is A Mind for Sales. And that’s really what it is. It’s about your mindset. Because you can have the best product, you can have the best customer list, you can have the best process. But if your mindset is messed up, it’s not going to happen. And right now this book is literally it came out in March, right as the pandemic was getting going, and it’s going been going gangbusters. It’s selling like crazy. I get notes every day from people all over the US and around the world. It’s nice, because it’s helping you going on today, though.
Come on. Well, today, today only it’s the Kindle version is $1.99 on Amazon. Yeah, yeah, that’s a great price. Now it’s only it’s only for today. Hey, I think the deal and the books a bargain anytime. But gravitate pick up copies for friends pick up 100 copies, Kindle copy. Hey, people go to Kindle. Go online. And if you don’t have Kindle by the book, it’s awesome. And he is leaving, leave me a review of the book on Amazon and Barnes and Noble books, mailing wherever you buy it. Because you know what? People people don’t always listen to me, but they listen to what other people say. So when they read a review Oh, wow. This is from Joe average. Joe average? I don’t know. I don’t know if he’s actually listening. or choosing Norma. And when they read of you all that? Yes. By the book leader review, great way to tell others.
Nancy: Yeah. And how can my audience reach you?
Mark: Well, they can reach me by going to thesaleshunter.com, thesaleshunter.com. I mean, that’s it. You know what? It’s my it’s my name. It’s sales. I love it.
Nancy: Yep. And, you know, as I opened up, we’re huge fans of Mark. We listen to his podcasts and videos, I suggest you go to YouTube. And take a listen each. How many days a week do you publish something?
Mark: We try to put something out three to four days a week.
Nancy: Yeah. And I promise you you will not be disappointed his content will help you and your teams continue to grow during these crazy times. Hey, Mark, thank you so much for spending a little bit of time with me. Audience take advantage of what Mark has to say go find him. And I’ve got to end this with something that I think you usually say Mark but happy hunting everyone.
Mark: I love it.
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by Nancy Calabrese | Dec 14, 2020 | Podcast
On this week’s episode of Conversational Selling, we speak with Shari Levitin of The Levitin Group. She helps teams bridge the gap between beating quota and selling with an authentic, heartfelt approach. Throughout her career, she’s helped create over a billion dollars in increased revenue for companies in over 40 countries. She’s also the best selling author of Heart and Sell: 10 Universal Truths Every Salesperson Needs to Know and is a contributor to Forbes magazine, CEO Magazine, and Huffington Post.
Shari says, “You have one or two choices in life: you can look for the rare talent in people, and in situations, you can look for the good, or you can look for what’s wrong. And the more you look for the good in people, in situations, the more successful you’re going to be.”
We chat about connecting emotionally with our customers, as well as:
- The right questions to ask yourself to keep your edge in sales
- The best skills to develop to improve your sales
- The delicate balance between competency and empathy
- The surprising good to be found during the pandemic
- And more
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Transcript
Nancy Calabrese: Hi, it’s Nancy Calabrese. And this is Conversational Selling. And as you know, it’s the podcast where sales leaders and business experts share what’s going on in sales and marketing today. And of course, it all starts with the human conversation. Today we speak with Sherry Levitin of the Levitin group. She is an energetic, wickedly funny sales guru, who helps teams bridge the gap between beating quota and selling with an authentic, heartfelt approach. She’s helped create over a billion dollars in increased revenue for companies in over 40 countries. She’s the best-selling author of Heart and Self, is a contributor to Forbes magazine, CEO magazine, Inc, magazine, and Huffington Post. And today, she graces us with her presence. You know, Sherry, I saw you speak outbound last year, the first time I heard you, you were fantastic, full of figures. So you did not disappoint. I’m so excited to welcome you to the show.
Shari Levitin: Thank you, Nancy. It’s my pleasure.
Nancy: You know, we spoke before the program, and I’ve, I’ve been following you, you have so much content out there. And most of it is humorous, you know, kind of in your face stuff, which is so refreshing. How did you get to be so funny?
Shari: Oh, god, I’m glad you think I’m funny. No one in my family thinks I’m funny. You know, I think I feel that there’s so much information out there coming from salespeople and sales leaders. And when we can be entertaining, I think it’s actually the way the brain works. When we get people to laugh, and we’re entertaining. And when we emotionally connect, they’re much more likely to learn it actually opens up the learning centers in the brain. And so I always try to think about where’s the analogy here? And actually, I’ll tell you a secret. I never used to do videos like that. I would do them kind of stuffy, and I get all made up and be in a suit, you know, in a studio. And it was about four years ago, when a millennial on my team, Daniel said to me, you know, you’re not connecting with people my age. I said, Excuse me, you said you’re just stuffy, you’re inauthentic. Like, if you really want to connect with a new generation. Just be yourself.
Now you have to know while I was talking to him, I was hiking up a mountain. Because I loved the outdoors. I live in Park City. And he says No, really, like you should just you know, be yourself and do it without makeup. And I said yeah, yeah, he’s like, like, just do one now do a Facebook Live. I said I meant doing one now I don’t have any makeup on. He goes exactly. I dare you. I Double Dare you. And I kind of got mad at him. So I said, Okay, fine, I’m going to do it. So I was literally on top of a mountain and I thought I’m going to draw a parallel between how sales people get on top and how they fall down. And I just didn’t have bad hair like fuzzy hair, no makeup, you know, I’m kind of a wreck right in my mind. And I put it on Facebook. I was like, Oh my god, like 12,000 views. When I have a blog, I’m lucky if I get a, you know, very low single digit percent open rate, you know, of people that actually read it. And I thought this is a much better way to communicate. And from then on, I just started, you know, wherever I was, whatever I was doing, if I’m cleaning out my storage locker, I would think, Well, what does that have to do with sales? Oh, our sales presentations become junk drawers.
Let’s pick up our camera. I live with my husband and my son, and they love shooting guns. I’m like, Okay, fine. I’ll learn to shoot a shotgun. I thought, ooh, there’s a lot of shotgun sellers. So I just started having fun with it. And I thought, wow, people really liked the craziness. And I can think of humor and the analogies. Because really, you know, you can find analogies and parallels in anything. And I think the best stories and the best sales stories come from everyday life. So it seems to resonate with people. So Ah, yes.
Nancy: Well, you’re genuine. People like people that are extremely genuine and you did something to stand out in the crowd, right?
Shari: Yeah, it wasn’t intentional, but I’m glad that it worked out that way. Because I also feel that you know, when you give away content and you give away yourself whether it’s online on LinkedIn or through your newsletters, you know, people come to you. And I really hate it when you know people try to connect with you. And the first thing they do is they lead with their product instead of leading with either giving you something, giving you information or helping you and there’s just too much content out there today, and people will delete you and forget about you. So I try to think and I tell sellers, you know, if you want to connect with your target market on LinkedIn, don’t just like, you know, throw up on them. Like, hello, it’s not all about the product, do your research, take 5-10 minutes, learn a bit, a little bit about them. I call it show me you know me. Find out what’s important to them, give them value, give them something, and you’ve earned the right to get people’s time today. You’ve earned it.
Nancy: I agree. I agree and show me you know, me, that’s probably something I’m going to steal from you. So I’m just giving you a heads up. Okay.
Shari: I think I saw it from Jill Rally. So let’s give her credit. Okay, thank you. Yeah, you do?
Nancy: Well, speaking of feel, I did some more homework. And, you know, as I said earlier, we share your content, especially when we’re allowed to steal and borrow and one in particular jumps out. You talk about the biggest deal you ever landed and I’d love you to share it with the audience. What did you do? That was so amazing.
Shari: Oh, was that when I couldn’t get Simon’s attention? Yeah. Oh, okay. Yeah, this was years ago. This was actually back in the days of fax machines. And now that I’ve brought up this strategy, I have had people use it and land similar deals. I’ve gotten four different emails on exactly that. So wow, you know, it’s hard to get a hold of decision makers today. Right? Even if you have a relationship, even if you know them, you know, people are so overloaded, so busy. I think in some ways, now that we’re locked up in the pandemic, more of them are home, but there, it’s so hard to get to the right people, right. So I have defined a gentleman named Simon, the head of sales and marketing, or I don’t remember if he was out or the CEO at the time, but I knew he was the perfect client for me. You know, we had met a couple of times at a conference, I just, I could not get the guy on the phone. I couldn’t get in front of them. I did all you know, the gatekeeper, called the Secretary and made friends with her, you know, and every time I call her she’d say, Oh, I’m sorry. Simon’s in the meeting. Oh, I’m sorry. Simon’s in the meeting. Now, like months later, I’m thinking, like, God, like doesn’t ever like get out to like, go to lunch or, you know, see the ducks in the park. Like course Simon is always in a meeting.
So one day I called her. I called every couple of weeks ago, I said, Hi, is Simon in? No, he’s in a meeting. It was about 11 o’clock there. And I said, I have an idea. She said, Yeah, I said he had lunch yet. She said, No. I said, what’s the best pizza place around? She says, Paulie’s, why? I said, Okay, tell you what I’m going to do. I’m going to buy two large pepperoni pizzas. I’m going to send them there. And then I’m going to fax you this was a while back at the poem. And if you don’t mind, that’s the poem on top of the pizza box. And I’m gonna buy you a pizza as well. She starts laughing, she says, fine. So I wrote this funny little poem that said, um, is it sunny? Or is it raining? It’s always a good time for online training. I know you’re busy playing businessmen and banker. But isn’t it time we sat down our anchor? So when you’re done with that last pepperoni, pick up the phone, and let’s make some money? Oh, so about 90 minutes later.
Nancy: Wait a minute, you should patent that?
Shari: Well, I helped a friend of mine who works for a big software company. A month ago, she got a $750,000 deal. Because I wrote her a poem. I know, I should go into the poem writing business, right? Like it was so so I get this call from time and he is laughing so hard. It turns into a million dollar deal. Now as a new training company, it was a big deal. It’s still a big deal. Right? So, you know, it ended up being you know, they got our online learning, we created custom content for them. And it ended up being a multi year relationship that really kicked off my career back then. But I wonder if all of this is, you hear so many SDR sales people, consultants, whatever they are, I left a message I called they didn’t call back Really? Like, are you surprised? You know, it’s it. You don’t have to be better but you do have to be different in what’s going to get them. I have a girlfriend Karen Keating that I told you about a top, top seller. She is so creative. If she can’t get like let’s say she’s trying to get two stakeholders together.
And this was pre COVID. Right? But within a company, she’d send a bottle of champagne. to one and two champagne glasses to the other, you know, and I’m, whatever it takes. And I love doing this exercise in seminars and saying, How can we be creative? What can we do today? There’s so many things that you can do. But the bottom line to all of this is it takes effort. It takes up creativity, and it takes courage. And these are the skills that every seller needs to develop. And I say courage because we think, oh, what’s everybody else doing? Well, if you do what everybody else is doing, you’re going to get the results everybody else is getting. And right. Those are good. Let’s sales reps aren’t hit quota. So you better think what can I do? And yes, do you risk looking like a dumb Gumball yet? I don’t even know if dumbbells at work. But do you? Looking silly? Yes, you do. Do you risk looking silly being on a mountain? Yes. Do some of my messages backfire? Yes. Yeah. And I’m not telling you to imitate near imitating video.
But think like, what can you do? What is unique to you to get in front of your decision makers? How can you make the process fun, because it’s not always so much what you say, it’s how you make other people feel didn’t Maya Angelou famously says, people will never remember what they say, they remember how you make them feel. So I like to have. I like to have fun. So I want my customers to feel the fun and the levity.
Nancy: Well, I am doing the fun right now. If everybody were in front of you, they would be applauding right now. So what is your unique idea you bring to the table that really sets you apart besides fun?
Shari: I think the one that resonates with people the most is I like to talk about, you know, what’s more important in selling competency, knowing your product or empathy, knowing your customer and I always do this live. And if we were on a chat right now, I’d have the audience chat. And what’s more important, it usually comes right about down the middle. And people say, Well, you know, you know, some people say competency, some people say empathy. And then we cite a Harvard Business Review article that says, it’s actually a trick question. Because you need both. In fact, competency and empathy are 90% of influence, and of course, influence in sales. By the order matters. Empathy gets you in the door. It’s competency, reliability, and integrity that keep you there. And I guess what’s unique about it is we all know, at some level, we need to lead with empathy. But I haven’t heard a lot of people juxtapose it with competency, and then realize that, yeah, you may know it in your head. But you’re not doing that. That’s why we’re generally selling virtually right now, when we get in a time crunch. Because time is different, virtually, right?
We don’t have the benefit of serendipity where, you know, a 10 minute meeting turns into an hour and two hours in the signing of a contract, you’re usually in a 30 or 60 minute segment. And then that’s it. So what happens is, when our time shrinks, particularly in a virtual call, what do sales reps do? Well, well, throughout that empathy piece, we won’t get to know them, you know, and when in fact, you’re better off doing the opposite. Get them to trust you, show them, you know, then build a relationship, and then at the end of your time block, then you can book another poll. That’s way more effective than jumping into the demo, which I’m telling you 90% of sellers.
Nancy: I hear you. I don’t understand. I don’t understand it makes no sense to me. We call that features and benefits. Wow. Yes, feature Duncan thing. Yeah. Oh, yeah. So you know, I asked you also earlier, I love storytelling. What story would the audience find interesting. I mean, we’ve heard a few are already. I don’t know if you can top that.
Shari: Well, I, I think there was a moment that really changed my life. And I was a mediocre salesperson. When I started in sales. I wasn’t the top and I wasn’t the bottom. I remember one day I just wrote a contract. And my mentor called me into his office and he shut the door. He looked me in the eye and he said, You know, I’ve been watching you for years. And you have a rare talent. Like, yeah, if you keep it up and work harder and study more, I think you have the ability to be number one in this industry. Well, you have to understand I’d never been the top so I’m thinking wow, I’m really something. So you know, the next morning I got up early, and I started listening to tapes and watching videos. Okay, I got all this talent. And at the end of the year, sure enough, I became a top seller and I remember I got this huge bouquet of flowers.
That said, congratulations, you have a rare talent. In fact, I did so well that I ended up getting a promotion to work longer hours and make less money. They made me a manager. And I was a horrible manager, like I just sucked. And a lot of sales people don’t make good managers. And I remember going into his office to quit and to say, you know, I need to go back to sales. And he says, How come when you were in sales, you asked me for help every day now that you’re a manager, you think you’re supposed to know it all? And I’m crying? And he says, aren’t you want me to teach you the trick to being the world’s greatest manager? Like, yes, yes. He says, When you find a sales person, even if they’re not that good, but they’re hungry, and they want to learn, what you should do is bring them into your office, look them in the eye, and tell them they have a rare talent. Because, to this day, I never knew if I had any talent, or any more than anybody else, and I still don’t, but what I do know is that he taught me perhaps the most important lesson that I’ve taken with me my whole life, and that is this. You have one or two choices in life, you can look for the rare talent in people.
And in situations, you can look for the good, or you can look for what’s wrong. And the more you can look for the good in people in situations, the more successful you’re going to be. And I take that with me every day. Yeah. And I think what’s good about this pandemic, God, there’s so much book I have connected with so many people I wouldn’t have had time to connect with. I just connected with you. I’ve Yeah, you know, time more time to be with my family. There’s been these serendipitous moments, there’s been more time for reflection and introspection, and I just feel like a choice. Look for what’s right.
Nancy: Yep. So what would you like us to, for me to spotlight on your behalf? What’s important to you right now?
Shari: I would say, be careful when you set goals. And this is probably counterintuitive. Pardon me, I got Siri yelling at me. Oh, be careful. When you set goals. I think a lot of times, we set goals. And we lose sight of who we are. And what’s important, I noticed is very counterintuitive. I’ve gotten to a point in my life where I set goals. But I have to look at there have been many times in life where I have set goals. And I’ve run ragged, I remember 10 years ago, I had these, I had a 40 person company, I had migraines every day. And I hit my goals. But I lost a lot. And I just think it’s important for people to know what’s important and why and to create what I call the triangle of happiness. And I learned this from a dear mentor. Because so often we think if we hit this goal, then we’ll be happy. And then we’ll run fulfilled.
But we lose something along the way. And I think that it’s important to look at not just what your financial or your work goals are, but what your life goals are. And I will leave you with this. The triangle of happiness is that we need to have strong loving relationships. You need to have great health and wellness, spirituality. And we need to have a sense of purpose. This is the trick in life, right? How do you balance the three and if we’re chasing some, you know, material goal, we lose our health, or we sacrifice our relationships will never be fulfilled. So instead of just thinking about what you want to achieve, ask yourself a more important question. And that is Who do I want to be?
Nancy: Wow. You know, we could go on and on but we’re running out of time and I know that you have a time crunch. How can we find you?
Shari: You can follow me on LinkedIn and see some of my silly videos. Or you can email me at Shari@sharilevitin.com and or you can buy my book on Amazon, Heart and Sell. I’d love that.
Nancy: All right, well, everyone out there. You just got a dose of what Sherry is all about. I highly encourage that you follow her on YouTube. I want you back to talk more about Heart and Sell and continue with some of the funny observations you’ve made in sales. I have so enjoyed speaking with you and I hope this is the first of several to come. Thanks so much.
Shari: Thank you Nancy.